Sunday, October 6, 2013

Big Breaks

We can all agree that wanting to accomplish something means nothing unless you do what’s necessary to see the accomplishment. Achieving involves taking steps; these steps are opportunities. It’s one thing to work hard, pray, hope, and to believe for opportunities to present themselves. It’s another thing to recognize what is in front of you and not be afraid when the opportunities present themselves. Just recently I’ve been presented with several opportunities. When they were first presented to me, I didn’t recognize them as chances for me to progress. Then when I acknowledged what they were, fear attempted to set in. I battled repeat thoughts of “What if the responsibility is too much?” “Am I ready for this?” and “What if I can’t do it?” I took a moment of silence, literally, to relax my mind. Once I calmed down, I had to remind myself that this is what I’ve been working toward. I deserve these opportunities aka “The big breaks.” Then I had another honest moment: All of this time I’ve spent planning and working, there was a part of me that didn’t think I deserved the breaks. I share that with you to say that whatever you are working hard towards achieving, not only should you believe your hard work will pay off, but you should recognize an open door, walk through it knowing you are more than qualified for the occasion, commemorate the win, and never apologize for the celebration.


  1. Anonymous10/08/2013

    Thank you for sharing this! We can't let fear keep us from reaching our goals. And most of the time is not really fear but doubt in ourselves. Great post love it!


  2. Anonymous10/13/2013

    Negative thoughts lead to doubt which results in feelings of fear, HOWEVER POSITIVE THOUGHTS LEAD TO COURAGE SELF CONFIDENCE AND I CAN DO ALL THINGS WHICH I HAVE BEEN CREATED TO DO...Training our brains to think positive is a life time process it is like physical exercise most of us don't get enough. But with God's help we continue to strive each day! May He continue to Bless You!

  3. So I read this and got a little teary eyed lol...just what I needed, inspired by my big sis love u!